do you ever have those moments

when you realize how good you've got it...how the things that have been annoying you or the dirty carpet that was clean 5 min ago or any other little thing so mean nothing and are so not a big deal when you hear that a friend is going through something medically or emotionally nasty? seriously...makes me feel like a completely ungreatful person...that truly is the one thing i never want to be guilty of but alas i think i saddly am...